Not all relationships have a happy ending, some relationships came to a crashing halt as couples end up falling apart. Relationships are always complicated, they never are easy as every couple has to hurdle all obstacles along the way. But enduring all these, are necessary for a relationship to last.
Couples often encounter problems on relationships such as misunderstandings and prolonged miscommunications which approximately is 90% of all reasons of break-ups. This now lead to couples trying to figure out ways on saving a relationship.
First step is to develop a good relationship value. This entails willingness from both parties to save a relationship. For this to work, commitment, seriousness and hard work are necessary. This is of course, in hope that one of the couple has not given up yet on their relationship or has already moved on, in which case, it is almost impossible to save the broken relationship.
Second thing to do is to be able to identify certain issues. Every couple needs to communicate. This is a basic requirement, issues can not be solved and problems can not be identified if no confrontations are being done, which is not the same as blaming. An open communication line and allotting time to solve certain issues may help figure out the root cause of their problems and prevent misunderstandings to rise.
Here are some of the factors causing problems in a relationship: misunderstanding, lack of cooperation and lack of trust.
Third important thing to do is to be able to find reasons as to why the relationship should stay. The welfare of the children and convenience on their part are some of the reasons but not the priority. The main important reason must be their personal feelings for each other as they have the duty of taking care each other's feelings.
Fourth step is to share each other's concerns. Being able to identify the reasons of the troubles, it is now time to let out some thoughts in an attempt to rationalize everything that has transpired through the relationship. By doing so, each must be warm, considerate and open to anything. Cooperation by the couple is needed for everything to work accordingly.
Lastly, a plan must be created and implemented. This would involve a specific and carefully though off plan that the couple is dedicated to do and implement. Both of them must be dedicated in putting that plan to action and must be together so as not to lose the mended communication lines. As mentioned, communication is the key to saving the relationship. - 42569
Couples often encounter problems on relationships such as misunderstandings and prolonged miscommunications which approximately is 90% of all reasons of break-ups. This now lead to couples trying to figure out ways on saving a relationship.
First step is to develop a good relationship value. This entails willingness from both parties to save a relationship. For this to work, commitment, seriousness and hard work are necessary. This is of course, in hope that one of the couple has not given up yet on their relationship or has already moved on, in which case, it is almost impossible to save the broken relationship.
Second thing to do is to be able to identify certain issues. Every couple needs to communicate. This is a basic requirement, issues can not be solved and problems can not be identified if no confrontations are being done, which is not the same as blaming. An open communication line and allotting time to solve certain issues may help figure out the root cause of their problems and prevent misunderstandings to rise.
Here are some of the factors causing problems in a relationship: misunderstanding, lack of cooperation and lack of trust.
Third important thing to do is to be able to find reasons as to why the relationship should stay. The welfare of the children and convenience on their part are some of the reasons but not the priority. The main important reason must be their personal feelings for each other as they have the duty of taking care each other's feelings.
Fourth step is to share each other's concerns. Being able to identify the reasons of the troubles, it is now time to let out some thoughts in an attempt to rationalize everything that has transpired through the relationship. By doing so, each must be warm, considerate and open to anything. Cooperation by the couple is needed for everything to work accordingly.
Lastly, a plan must be created and implemented. This would involve a specific and carefully though off plan that the couple is dedicated to do and implement. Both of them must be dedicated in putting that plan to action and must be together so as not to lose the mended communication lines. As mentioned, communication is the key to saving the relationship. - 42569
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