Wednesday, November 17, 2010

What Do Russian Girls Think About Americans

By Lera Cupidonova

American men have always had a special eye for Russian girls. With their exotic accents, thick dark hair, big rep lips, and caring personalities, it's not a surprise that many men look to them for a woman to settle down with.

Unfortunately, many men get taken off guard by stereotypes that Russian woman have, and don't know how to respond when certain questions are asked. This article will tell you about some of those common misconceptions, allowing you to be more prepared when you have your introduction. Remember that these are general stereotypes, not guaranteed beliefs.

The first stereotype American men face from the Russian population is that they are all rich. Every man is Donald Trump, living the high life in some penthouse apartment with seven cars in the parking garage. Movies and other mainstream media, like music videos and TV shows, depict very lavish extravagancies as the norm in the United States. As we both know, that isn't the case.

This is okay. Money is not the reason most of these women want to meet you, despite some stereotypes that you may associate with them. Tell her the truth if you do not fit this wealthy image and it will be fine. Share your hobbies with her, laugh together, and make her feel safe. With these simple actions money will never be an issue.

Along with the stereotype that American men are rich, is the idea that they are incredibly well traveled. In reality, Americans have a very low international travel rate, with only thirty percent owning a passport. Some people credit this to the large size, making it harder and more expensive to leave. Others think it is because our diverse terrain leave little else to be desired. But Russian girls will not be familiar with these ideas, and will just assume you have been everywhere. Once again, be honest and everything will be fin.

The final thing to be prepared for is your Russian lady's expectations about family. In Russian culture it is normal for young girls to grow up in a household of parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, and grandparents. Rarely would she have a moment of privacy. She will expect you to have grown up the same way. Russian families are very close. She will be excited to tell you about her brothers and sisters. Be prepared to share some family stories of your own.

In one rare case, a gentlemen was so taken with his Russian girl and the way she talked about her family, that he relocated all of them to the United States. This is not normal, and not something all the girls expect, but it is a testament to the love and dedication that can build from these relationships.

These are a few examples of some of the basic ideas that Russian girls have about American men. These things are based on TV, movies, and other bits of media, as well as the most deep set traditions in her own culture. And always remember, just because some women expect certain things doesn't mean it is their ideal. Everyone is different and everyone looks for different things. - 42569

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